{"product_id":"stop-fighting-people","title":"STOP FIGHTING PEOPLE","description":"# STOP FIGHTING PEOPLE\n\n### *The Battle Is Bigger Than the Person in Front of You*\n\n**What if the person you're fighting isn't really the enemy?**\n\nWe fight people every day.\n\nWe fight with our spouses, children, family members, friends, colleagues, and sometimes complete strangers. We fight with our words. We fight with silence, resentment, assumptions, unforgiveness, gossip, anger, and the stories we create in our minds about what other people meant or why they behaved the way they did.\n\nBut what if we're fighting the wrong battle?\n\nIn **STOP FIGHTING PEOPLE**, Etta C. Kangume takes a raw, honest, faith-filled look at **Ephesians 6:12** and the reality that *“we wrestle not against flesh and blood.”* She challenges us to look beyond the person standing in front of us and ask a deeper question:\n\n**What is really happening underneath the behaviour?**\n\nThis book explores the connection between spiritual warfare, the battle for the mind, unresolved pain, misunderstanding, destructive thought patterns, relationships, forgiveness, accountability, and boundaries.\n\nBut make no mistake—this is **not** a book about becoming a doormat.\n\nUnderstanding someone's behaviour does not mean excusing it. Forgiveness does not mean pretending nothing happened. Love does not mean allowing unlimited access. Boundaries are not hatred. Accountability is not revenge. And walking away from an unsafe or destructive situation does not mean you have failed.\n\nSometimes you have to fight **for** the person instead of fighting **against** them.\n\nSometimes you have to fight for the relationship.\n\nSometimes you have to fight for your peace.\n\nAnd sometimes, the battle requires you to look in the mirror and allow God to change something in **you**.\n\nThrough relatable stories, Scripture, honest reflection, practical questions, and powerful mind-renewal moments, **STOP FIGHTING PEOPLE** invites you to stop reacting to every battle and start discerning what is really worth fighting for.\n\nBecause the person may be standing right in front of you.\n\n**But the battle may be much bigger than the person.**","brand":"TDS PUBLISHING","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":50559586402552,"sku":"9dzqey","price":400.0,"currency_code":"ZAR","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0840\/1928\/2168\/files\/dy7djdg-front-shortedge-384.jpg?v=1789996355","url":"https:\/\/tdspublishing.store\/products\/stop-fighting-people","provider":"TDS PUBLISHING","version":"1.0","type":"link"}